Understanding others and understanding yourself is the key to effective interpersonal communication
Do you really understand?
A personality that makes others trust and laugh
Develop empathic listening skills
Create an emotional account
empathic listening
Aim for understanding and put yourself in the perspective of the speaker
Don’t judge others by yourself, don’t bother guessing, understand the other person’s spiritual world
The key to emotional investment
Only when the other party agrees, the emotion of investment is meaningful
To be prepared to be influenced by the other party, you must first be influenced, that is, truly understand the other party
Avoid autobiographical responses
Value judgment: only accepting or not accepting the opinions of others
Getting to the bottom of things: exploring other people’s privacy based on your own values
Be a good teacher: provide advice based on your own experience
Self-righteousness: judging the actions and motivations of others based on your own actions and motivations
It seems like I get it all the time!
effective communication
Explain sentences and use left-brain logical thinking to express them
Participate in personal feelings and use the right side of your brain to understand the other person's mood
Add explanations and emotions, using both left and right brains
Using these four stages of communication can not only understand the other party, but also help the other party recognize themselves and have the courage to express themselves.
Expression skills
Morality: refers to your personal credibility, people’s recognition of your integrity and ability, and your emotional account.
Emotion: The ability to empathize and quickly understand the emotions of others through communication
Rationality: your logical ability, the ability to express yourself reasonably
Not only put yourself in the position of a supporter, but describe it better from the perspective of the other side, and then try to make people understand your ideas in a supporting framework!
Seven Habits of Highly Effective People Know Your Enemy and Understand Yourself