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What is the truth about love? How to find true love and become a winner in life? This article has no special guidance. It only talks about methodology and principles. Please adhere to the correct view of love!
Edited at 2024-01-31 09:59:22One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
Project management is the process of applying specialized knowledge, skills, tools, and methods to project activities so that the project can achieve or exceed the set needs and expectations within the constraints of limited resources. This diagram provides a comprehensive overview of the 8 components of the project management process and can be used as a generic template for direct application.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
Project management is the process of applying specialized knowledge, skills, tools, and methods to project activities so that the project can achieve or exceed the set needs and expectations within the constraints of limited resources. This diagram provides a comprehensive overview of the 8 components of the project management process and can be used as a generic template for direct application.
How to pursue the opposite sex
Introduction
The basic principle
1. Sincere communication: The most important thing in love is to sincerely express your thoughts and feelings and listen to the other person's opinions.
2. Stay independent: Maintain your own personality and independence in love, and don't rely too much on the other person.
3. Respect each other: Respect each other’s views, interests, and lifestyles, and avoid forcing each other to change.
4. Trust and support: Build mutual trust and support each other’s dreams and goals.
5. Moderate romance: Add some romantic atmosphere in your life to make love sweeter.
6. Grow together: Learn and grow together in love to become a better version of yourself.
7. Keep the passion alive: Keep the passion and freshness in your relationship alive over time so your love continues to grow.
Overall steps
Understand each other
Understand each other’s interests and hobbies
Understanding each other’s interests and hobbies can increase common topics
Understand each other's interests and hobbies, and you can increase common activities
Understand the other person’s personality traits
Understand each other’s personality traits and you can communicate and get along better
Understanding the other person’s personality traits can help you better understand the other person’s behavior and thoughts
Understand the other person’s life background
Understanding the other person’s life background can better understand the other person’s values and world view
Understanding the other person’s life background can better understand the other person’s living habits and way of thinking.
establish trust
Honesty and sincerity
Honesty and sincerity build a foundation of trust
Honesty and sincerity build bridges of trust
respect and understanding
Respect and understanding are the cornerstones of trust.
Respect and understanding build a bond of trust
support and encouragement
Support and encouragement can build pillars of trust
Support and encouragement can build bridges of trust
keep communicating
Communicate proactively
Active communication can maintain emotional stability
Active communication can keep feelings fresh
communicate effectively
Effective communication can avoid misunderstandings and conflicts
Effective communication can enhance feelings and trust
Active communication
Active communication can keep relationships alive
Active communication can keep the relationship sweet
express love
Avoid blind confession
language expression
Verbal expressions that can express love and care
behavioral expression
Behavioral expressions that can express love and care
gift expression
Gift expressions can express love and care
Maintain feelings
Emotional intelligence needs to be online
Respect and tolerance
understanding and support
caring and considerate
Analysis of difficulties
Men and women usually need to go through four types of relationships from being complete strangers to becoming inseparable:
Pick-up relationship, acquaintance relationship, friend relationship, couple relationship
01. What’s the hardest part about chasing girls?
When most boys are chasing girls, they always hope to be able to achieve immediate results, hit the target with one hit, and be foolproof.
When men and women interact, the relationship is progressive.
1. Understand the other party’s interests and needs
2. Build confidence and show your true self
3. Stay patient and don’t rush for quick success.
4. Good at listening and caring about each other’s feelings
5. Express care and affection in appropriate ways
6. Seize the opportunity and avoid being too impulsive.
7. Respect each other and give each other space
The mentality of worrying about gains and losses is the main reason for failure
7 points are lost in image, 3 points are lost in expression, and 90 points are lost in worrying about gains and losses.
02.Initial understanding
①Catch up relationship: The two parties who meet each other agree to talk to each other, that is, establish understanding
the truth
Women can end the conversation and leave at any time, men should not chase each other and continue
People who don’t understand social rules, Yiyi, just don’t understand where the line is between stalking and respecting others.
Breaking the rules is not just a moral issue. From a practical benefit point of view, people who do not understand the rules will also be losers in social life.
Target
Leave contact information
Task (what should be done)
Make a good first impression on others
Includes appropriate dress, behavior, conversation, and a sincere and relaxed attitude
upgrade signal
Friendly communication and smooth chatting
②Knowing relationship: Leaving WeChat represents both parties’ recognition of mutual contact.
the truth
If the girl never replies, it means that she no longer recognizes the relationship.
Those boys who continue to send WeChat messages without replying to girls and ask why they don’t reply are actually violating the rules of communication in the acquaintance stage.
Target
Make an appointment to meet
upgrade signal
Girls often reply to your WeChat messages, or have a lot of talk (or attention)
Task
Make a good second impression
Display in your circle of friends
You can communicate normally (chat on WeChat)
③Friendship: only when both parties have time and both parties are willing
in principle
In the same way, if you can't make a date after a certain meeting, it actually means that the friendship is over.
the truth
Relationships do not depend on the purpose of communication, but on the way of communication. If someone does not want to meet you, you can just ignore them. This is the essence of friendship.
Target
become a couple
upgrade signal
When you are together in person, the other person shows compliance and obedience to you or has a lot of talk and attention.
Task
1. Your true situation (including your work income, growth experience, family background, living habits, etc.) meets the other party’s criteria for choosing a spouse;
2. Your personality makes the other person feel comfortable.
03.Advanced relationship
④ Couple relationship: Both parties have time, and either party can contact or meet when they wish.
the truth
My girlfriend excuses herself because she is not free on weekends, and often does not reply on WeChat messages. The boy couldn't figure out what was going on.
In fact, the girl no longer wants to recognize the relationship, and the next result is likely to be a breakup.
The other party can disapprove of the relationship at any time. If the boy violates the rules of communication, he will be eliminated.
common problem
Contact frequency
In the early stage of acquaintance, contacting from two or three times a week to once a week or two is within the normal range. Maintaining the frequency of contact in this range will not affect the chances of two people becoming a couple in the next step.
Relationship upgrade
If both parties actively and voluntarily contact each other every day, it means that the relationship should be upgraded immediately.
If only one party is reluctantly in contact every day, it will easily lead to a downgrade of the relationship.
If the communication at the previous level is smooth, then you can naturally be promoted to the next level. Men only need to make a simple and direct request for promotion.
"Look down" performance
Anything that is rejected due to first impression, second impression and real situation is what we usually call disdain.
Your conditions are only up to standard, not outstanding, so you enter the spare tire ranks
Basic love skills
1. Able to chat and flirt. (Know what to do.)
2. Understand the rules of communication. (Know what to do when.)
3. A correct view of love. (You can still maintain a good attitude when you are doing nothing.)
Love taboos
1. You must not chase a girl for more than two months. If you are successful, you will be with her. If you are not successful, you will pull her down and turn around when you are full of wine.
2. On your first date, never take a girl to the movies. Sitting in a movie theater for two hours and not being able to do anything is a failure.
3. Don’t have too many inner dramas. If you like it, just go out and ask for it. Don’t hesitate too much.
4. Don’t confess your feelings. Most sustainable relationships end at this point. Men must hold on.
5. Keep yourself clean. If you are too greasy, girls will directly pass you by.
6. Sometimes you should be a bit coquettish when dealing with girls. When the atmosphere is good, you might as well kiss her directly. Most girls will not only not be angry, but will think you are very manly.
7. Don’t do low-cost care. When it rains, if you remind her to bring an umbrella, why not ask her to stand still and wait for you to bring her umbrella? If you remind her to take medicine when she is sick, why not buy her medicine and deliver it to her door. When boys care about girls, actions are more important than words
8. Girls like boys with high emotional intelligence and temperament, so boys must watch more movies. Watching movies is the fastest way to improve their emotional intelligence and temperament. You must watch any movie without one.
9. When you see a beautiful woman on the street, just go up and strike up a conversation. This method really works.
10. As soon as you are rejected by a girl once, run away immediately. Don’t stalk her, and don’t show your sadness or sadness. If you say one more word, your image will lose three points.
11. When you see a pretty girl, be sure to go up and ask for WeChat, because most pretty girls will give it to you, but the premise is that you are not too cowardly.
12. Chatting with girls and misinterpreting what girls say will make girls think you are very interesting! It will greatly increase your social value.
13. When a girl tells you to take a shower, don’t wait for her anymore, and don’t ask stupidly if she’s finished. Trust me, this is the right thing to do.
How to lower your head
For upper men
Love can make people blind, but games will not
Falling in love is worse than playing games
Wake up in the world, play life
Change yourself more, love yourself more
Read and learn, improve cognition
In the book, Yan Ruyu is free, in the book, the golden house is free
What kind of love is it? It’s better to seize your youth and make money.