MindMap Gallery The courage to be hated
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One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
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One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
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The courage to be hated
Teleological
psychological trauma
The reason why I fabricated myself for not going out was that I was unable to integrate into society due to the abuse of my father and daughter.
anger
fabricated emotions for the other person to give in
workaholic
Using work as an excuse to avoid other tasks
become someone else
To love myself and experience happiness, I hope to become someone else
Unable to accept myself as I am now
People are making excuses not to change
Solution: Take action! If you dream of being a painter, make a portfolio and participate in a competition. Don’t use busyness as an excuse (yes! It’s that simple)
Too much self-awareness will restrict yourself, so you must have the courage to change
Accept what you can’t do, and then work towards what you can do
Happiness is not bound by the past, future or relationships
A planned life is impossible
The important thing is to do what you can do now carefully and rigorously at this moment.
Obsessing with the past, focusing on the future, and always ignoring the present moment is a huge lie in life.
perfectionism
Excellent
Very bad
bring out a point
In fact, most people are ordinary and self-satisfied
Your life is changed by yourself
Reasons for choosing Teleology
The existence of teleology proves that people are not influenced by past factors and reminds people to pay attention to the present.
interpersonal communication
Own
hate oneself
To avoid hurt feelings in relationships with others
It is impossible not to get hurt in interpersonal relationships. As long as you are involved in interpersonal relationships, you will be hurt in a big or small way, and you will also hurt others.
inferiority complex
Made-up excuses for not making changes
self-abasement
It’s a fabricated emotion created by people seeking excellence, but it’s normal. It motivates people to move up and make up for what’s missing.
bring out a point
superiority complex
People can’t stand having low self-esteem and are unwilling to make changes
general performance
Show off your misfortune to reflect your special existence
The general phenomenon is to use the power of power to improve oneself. After all, one is living in the values and life of others.
self-centered behavior
Obsessed with desire for recognition
Self-centered (tyrant)
Others won’t pay so much attention to you (looks)
society
compete
You can only compare yourself with your ideal self
compare with others
Power struggle and revenge are irreconcilable
Behavior aimed at defeating others and proving one's own strength is not conducive to development.
get angry
Use words correctly instead of anger to withdraw from the battle of victory and defeat.
self-reliance
Live in harmony with society
Purpose: Feel that you have a place in the community and realize your own value
Leave the relationship circle that is not suitable for you
Don’t judge the whole by just one aspect
Method
I am capable
Subjectively, I am useful to others
My existence is a blessing to others (like parent-child relationship)
Everyone is my partner
different but equal
Criticism and praise are not good, but encouragement is needed
Be aware of equality and speak your mind
free
No more searching for identity
You don't exist to satisfy other people's expectations, and neither do others, so don't get angry when others behave differently than you want.
Whether you choose to change or not is your issue. Not getting the response you expect is someone else’s issue and you can’t interfere.
Whether to trust is your problem, whether to betray is someone else's issue
bring out a point
separation of subjects
As the saying goes, this matter has nothing to do with you and nothing to do with me.
It doesn’t mean leaving things alone and helping others when they ask for help.
Even parents have no right to interfere
benefit
More harmonious interpersonal relationships
Lighten the burden of life
Requirements: Face your own life issues honestly, be yourself and don’t follow the crowd.
on the contrary
meet others' expectations
Entrust your life to others
Not only does it kill your own freedom, but others will also live under pressure.
The status that should be possessed
Don't care about other people's evaluations, don't be afraid of being disliked by others, don't pursue anything from others, conscientiously implement your own way of life, and work hard to gain freedom.
It’s not about making people hate you, it’s about having a normal attitude that it doesn’t matter if you are hated, and pay more attention to your own lifestyle.
Take the relationship card into your own hands
When thinking about how you choose to treat the relationship, start by changing yourself
While changing yourself, don’t think about manipulating others