MindMap Gallery The Courage to Be Disliked Reading Notes
The first chapter of The Courage to Be Disliked tells who is to blame for our misfortunes, tells about Freud, Jung, psychological trauma does not exist, anger is all fabricated, Socrates and Adler, and your life Depends on when etc.
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One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
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One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
Project management is the process of applying specialized knowledge, skills, tools, and methods to project activities so that the project can achieve or exceed the set needs and expectations within the constraints of limited resources. This diagram provides a comprehensive overview of the 8 components of the project management process and can be used as a generic template for direct application.
Whose fault is our misfortune?
Big Three
Freud
Jung
Adler
Stephen Covey
Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
equal research relationship
No matter how hard you look for reasons, you can't change a person.
Case 1: My friend is autistic and can’t go out. He wants to change, but his heart palpitates and his hands and feet tremble when he speaks.
Youth perspective: I don’t want to go out because I’ve been hurt
PHILOSOPHER: Because I don’t want to go out, my heart palpitates and I tremble.
One is causal theory and the other is teleology
In all status quos, there is the purpose of the parties wanting it to maintain the status quo.
Psychological trauma does not exist
Case 2: I went to the hospital for a cold. The doctor said that you caught the cold because you didn’t wear enough clothes yesterday. Will you be satisfied with the doctor's treatment?
Causality
Young man: No, I need a doctor to prescribe medicine to treat my current symptoms.
Teleological
Implication: Freud believed that past trauma is the cause of present pain Adler believed that pain is caused by the present's view of the past.
subjective choice
In the first case, my friend doesn’t go out because he can enjoy the care of his parents and is centered on him.
I don't understand
Anger is all fabricated
Case 3: The clothes were stained by the waiter, so I was angry because I was angry. So I got angry and cursed
PHILOSOPHER: In order to get angry, anger is brewing
Conclusion: The waiters will apologize, put away the clothes, and do the laundry.
You can choose to be calm
Case 4: A parent was yelling at his child one second, but the head teacher was kind and friendly when he answered the phone, and then he was yelling after the phone call.
Conclusion of Case 4: Emotions are “means” that can be released or retracted
Freud was wrong
Youth: I think philosophers have denied human nature, because people cannot resist emotions because they deny emotions.
Philosopher: Human beings can resist emotions
socrates and adler
Case 5: If a person has friends like sunflowers and is introverted, can he be like him?
Youth: Knowledge can be accumulated, values change, but character remains unchanged
I agree
Philosopher: I want to be someone else because I hate myself
Philosopher: What is important is not what is given, what is important is how to use what is given.
Your misfortunes are all your own choices
Philosopher: People choose misfortune because "misfortune" is good for them The so-called "good" means having benefits
I don't understand
Philosopher: Everyone actively chooses his or her own way of life
Youth: Did I choose my current misfortune? Lack of courage to achieve happiness
Your life depends on the moment
The reason for escaping is: leaving a possibility that if I do it, I can do it too
I understand
Avoiding makes things more complicated
No matter what happened before, it will have no impact on your future life