MindMap Gallery family Education
We can stretch from the perspective of perceptual support, growth = knowledge and experience, and increased experience: museums, universities, environmental education (indoor, outdoor), the burden behind children’s pressure (family support for children, empathy) child's height.
Edited at 2023-03-23 13:49:49One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
Project management is the process of applying specialized knowledge, skills, tools, and methods to project activities so that the project can achieve or exceed the set needs and expectations within the constraints of limited resources. This diagram provides a comprehensive overview of the 8 components of the project management process and can be used as a generic template for direct application.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
Project management is the process of applying specialized knowledge, skills, tools, and methods to project activities so that the project can achieve or exceed the set needs and expectations within the constraints of limited resources. This diagram provides a comprehensive overview of the 8 components of the project management process and can be used as a generic template for direct application.
March 22, 2013
Tree
Leaf: Society
Trunk: School
Roots: Family
Read the books of the ancients
Read Confucius, (read books, read about the times, make friends, their qualities)
Understand yourself and understand others
Heal yourself, heal others
Happy yourself, happy others
Eight major education
Environmental education, off-site education, on-site education, teaching by example, teaching by words, three-view education, ambition education, love education
0~7 years old: adult education, love plus rules, I love you ten thousand times.
8 to 14 years old: Talented education, knowledge and insight
After 15 years old: Education for success, attention and concentration
The direction of attention produces results.
The advantages are related to family tradition, and the disadvantages are related to tutoring
electronic product
Reasons: fun, attractive, imitation, lack of companionship
Time: Instead of reducing the time your children spend playing on their mobile phones, increase the time they spend playing. (Plan your child’s time)
Give your children the love they want
Boundaries: Please learn to change roles. Be a loving, powerful, and fun father.
The child lacks a sense of value, affirmation, praise, praise the child,
Behind addiction is a lack of value.
Sense of Control: Learn to let go.
Give children the freedom to choose and give them full freedom within a safe range.
Don’t focus on short-term results and ignore long-term consequences.
An education breaks a lifelong punishment. Mencius broke the pottery basin.
Grasp the scale.
three pairs of eyes
Current results: naked eye
Aftermath: mind’s eye
Cause and effect of problems: Insight
awareness
See the visible world
See your inner world
Seeing the world we ignore, Yangming Xinxue
See the invisible world, the invisible world determines the visible world
Everyone will make the best choice for themselves within limited resources.
How to improve limited, read, walk.
There is nothing new for adults.
See needs first, then problems (grab toys)
Deal with your own emotions first, take a deep breath
Brother: Squat down, my child, you are very sad now, come and give me a hug (seeing is the beginning of healing). Give love first, then rules. (Child, if you don’t want to give it to your brother, you may say no.) If you dare not say it, come on, mother, say something, you say something.
Brother: Brother, mom feels that you like your brother’s toys very much, right? It's me, I'll grab it too. (Give love) You have two choices: first, wait (mom waits with you), second, play with other toys (give rules) (overflowing with love)
Minimize help, maximize growth
Mind Games: Exploring Parents’ Low Lines.
sense of security
Original family
husband and wife relationship
Parent-child relationship
kinship
Standing position, the man stands on the right (power) and the woman is in the middle (core). Women are the feng shui of the home, and the feng shui is on the woman's face and mouth. (laughter)
There is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, there is a problem in the child
How to make up for a sense of security
Reasons for lack of security: emotional instability of the significant other, frequent replacement of the excessive significant other, frequent moves, disharmonious relationship between husband and wife, violence against children, comparison
Supplement a sense of security: significant others are emotionally stable, willing to talk to anyone (adolescence), spend time with children, excessively important others do not change (people, things), raise small animals (lack of security), do not move, husband and wife relationship Be harmonious, don’t treat children violently (to resolve children’s emotions), and don’t compare.
Every time you achieve something small, you feel a sense of accomplishment, value, and confidence.
Hug more, touch more, and increase physical contact.
sense of value
Biting something makes the child feel stressed.
subtopic
Sense of self-worth: implant a positive identity (positive) (the story of Einstein going to school, the seaside, birds, seagulls, seagulls that can fly across the sea in the future)
His sense of value: being able to speak is a kind of wisdom, not speaking is a kind of practice,
Be a life mentor (teacher, teach the knowledge of the past, mentor, see the beauty, mentor, see the future),
Elementary praise
Things (give specific facts)
Feel (represent your own feelings)
Praise (represent quality)
No more next time, looking forward to it
Praise your children for the process and hard work.
Education is about establishing causes and consequences
Familiarity establishes familiar patterns
Familiarity and good feeling = meeting
Peaceful music
Clean things have their own energy
Simple and self-contained
puberty
With a smile, you decide
Understand, respect, encourage
Look in your heart, remember it in your heart, reshape your mental map, understand and decide your choice
Visit famous schools
Three students education
life, survival, life
drag:
Reasons: Innate temperament, blood type A, feeling, B, strong logical thinking, slow movement, O external vision type, AB leader type, insufficient crawling, imitation, not interested,
Satya Everyone lives in a society of relationships
Learning motivation: family relationship, teacher-student relationship (praising teachers more, in front of children), relationship between children and themselves, relationship between children and subjects (dreams), linking dreams with subjects. The relationship between children and classmates, the relationship between children and society.
dream
What are your dreams, kid?
What are the good universities in China?
Check it yourself
Peking University, Tsinghua University
I really want to see it
The Law of Identity, Peking University Girl
Take your children to travel (Peking University, this is your alma mater)
Sensitive period for children’s dreams (9 to 11 years old, solidifying dreams)
Well-matched (high level of cognition and thinking)
Children are the product of the environment and the result of belief (the power of belief)
Boost the other person's sense of self-worth.
The subconscious mind does not recognize negative words, only keywords.
Make negative behaviors positive. More and more...
healthy
Inner: Psychological Nutrition
External: physiological nutrition
Case (Personnel Department Education) Elderly people picking up trash
Educate children to pick up trash (no motivation)
My child, have you seen it? Study hard and become a capable person when you grow up and help more people. (Motivated)
Sensory systems open up cognition
Humans have six senses: vision, hearing, touch, smell, taste, and perception.
Connect with nature, communicate with others, and cultivate children's awareness
Understanding is the prerequisite for love
Stretch your child's height
Companionship of perception
Success = knowledge and insight
How to increase your knowledge: museums, universities, environmental education (indoor, outdoor)
The burden behind the child’s pressure (family support for the child, empathy,