MindMap Gallery Marital relationship
Marital relationship, such as the four stages of the relationship between husband and wife: fantasy period, disillusionment period, introspection period, and solidity period. Except for issues of principle such as domestic violence and cheating, problems at home are not caused by one person but are created by both of you.
Edited at 2023-05-06 22:35:29One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
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One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
Project management is the process of applying specialized knowledge, skills, tools, and methods to project activities so that the project can achieve or exceed the set needs and expectations within the constraints of limited resources. This diagram provides a comprehensive overview of the 8 components of the project management process and can be used as a generic template for direct application.
Marital relationship
Misconceptions about marriage
1. When I marry you, you must give me happiness
2. Don’t you know what I’m thinking?
3. I have paid so much, why do you still treat me like this?
4. Try not to make any noise as much as possible, so as not to hurt your children’s feelings.
5. Husband and wife respect each other and cooperate, and discuss everything
6. He doesn’t love me anymore and we don’t have time to date anymore.
The four stages of a couple’s relationship
1. Fantasy period
2. Disillusionment period
The complicated housework, the triviality of raising children, the end of emotional impulses
Whether you can survive the period of disillusionment is a key point in marriage.
3. Introspection period
Am I not good enough? Why have you changed? Do I want to continue?
4. Firm period
Except for issues of principle, domestic violence and cheating, any problems in the family are not caused by one person but are created by you together.
Correct View on Marriage
1. Marriage is not the only way to happiness. Marriage is just a way to achieve happiness in life.
2. The essence of marriage is a transaction
What value do you use for trading?
How valuable are you and whether you can be replaced at any time?
Have the issues with your exchange process been resolved?
3. Your emotions are your own, and so are your choices. No one can hurt you without your permission.
4. There is nothing wrong with the need to be loved. The fault is that the ways and means of obtaining love are too single.
5. There are many ways to express love in marriage, with different methods at different stages, not just sweet words.
Fantasy expressions
Dating gifts with surprises and sweet words
realistic expression
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Choice period expression
How to resolve negative emotions in marriage
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1. There is no right or wrong in emotions, especially when emotions are easily caused.
2. We are not the destroyers of emotions. Even if we do everything, he will still have negative emotions.
3. Negative emotions are the only way to grow, and he must bear them himself
4. Emotions don’t have to be solved immediately. Emotions are energy and can be channeled through daily activities and games.
Couples who can learn to stop losses in time have achieved 90% happiness
Think of 3 ways to support or not support his needs
How to communicate well between husband and wife
1. Have a correct understanding of marriage
2. Think about how to deal with your partner’s negative emotions
3. Set your own bottom line
1. You did not object, including the acquiescence that you agreed.
2. If you agree to something, you must accept all the consequences, good and bad, and don’t treat it as an afterthought.
3. If you can’t bear the bad results, don’t fantasize about the good results.
What should I do if my partner just won’t change?
Don't try to change his evaluation system. Our evaluation system will be different depending on our experiences. Don't imagine that it will be the same after marriage.
Effective communication between couples
If you fail to meet the basic requirements, set a bottom line and know what you want and what you will lose.
A slight change will help your life, you can make a request
Points to note when raising demands: In theory, any request can be raised
1. Put forward your own needs, the more specific the better (for example, how much of each vegetable type to buy, mop the floor 3 times)
2. When making demands, only mention things. Don’t vent your emotions or argue about why you have different ideas.
3. When making demands, think carefully about your bottom line and whether you can bear the consequences of what he cannot do.
What to do if principled issues arise in marriage
There is no excuse for the occurrence of principled issues. It is just like parents cannot spank their children even an inch. This is a basic moral constraint. There is no excuse.
Issues of principle are never your fault
Effective communication between husband and wife
1. What do you need in this marriage?
2. Will it happen again in the future? Can you bear it?
3. I lost my relationship and gained %%%. What are my future plans?
Frequently asked questions after principle issues arise
I think I still love him. I wonder if I am used to it or if I really love him? Tell me specifically what you love about him
I feel like I have nothing to rely on alone. What I rely on should be written down in detail in the choice list. If you can’t do the things you rely on, you are still used to relying on them.
I worry about him every day. You are not worried, you are just imagining that he will not appear again.
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