MindMap Gallery The courage to be hated
The mind map of the courage to be hated lets us know: everyone has the ability to achieve happiness. The key lies in whether you have the courage. What we need is the courage to face misfortune without escaping.
Edited at 2023-03-16 07:02:01One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
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One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
One Hundred Years of Solitude is the masterpiece of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Reading this book begins with making sense of the characters' relationships, which are centered on the Buendía family and tells the story of the family's prosperity and decline, internal relationships and political struggles, self-mixing and rebirth over the course of a hundred years.
Project management is the process of applying specialized knowledge, skills, tools, and methods to project activities so that the project can achieve or exceed the set needs and expectations within the constraints of limited resources. This diagram provides a comprehensive overview of the 8 components of the project management process and can be used as a generic template for direct application.
The courage to be hated
why are we unfortunate
We are creating our own "misfortune" with our own hands
Unfortunateness is your own choice, because at that stage it is more beneficial to you to be "unfortunate"
Some people are unwilling to change. In fact, they do not give others the opportunity to hate themselves.
Adler's "teleology" - the psychology of the strong
Adler's psychology considers not the "causes" of the past, but the "purpose" of the present
We will discover and select factors that suit our "purpose" from our past experiences, and then choose "misfortune" to achieve our "purpose"
Attributing it to ourselves means that we always have the possibility and responsibility to control and change
Everyone has the ability to achieve happiness
The psychology of courage
What we need is the courage to face misfortune without escaping
how to get happiness
Stay away from unnecessary worries
How to deal with other people's expectations
Not seeking approval from others
The courage to be ordinary
Understand life as a "continuity of points"
Keep your feet on the ground and live in the present
How to Treat Others as “Partners”
separation of subjects
Identify whose subject it is
Deal with your own issues
Don’t interfere in other people’s issues
Build a sense of community
self-acceptance
trust in others
Contributions from others
Learn to get along with necessary worries
Freedom frees us from the troubles of interpersonal communication
Freedom is “the courage to be hated by others”
Don't care about other people's evaluation and don't pursue being recognized by others
Distinguish between your own affairs and other people's affairs
Distinguish between your own emotions and those of others
what is true freedom
From now on, believe in yourself
Find a view of life that you believe in and practice it
About the Author
「日」Fumiken Koga
freelance writer
「日」Kishimi Ichiro
famous japanese philosopher
Studying Adlerian Psychology for Decades
The key is whether you have the courage
Everyone has the ability to achieve happiness