MindMap Gallery Cultural Thoughts on the Marriage and Love Stories between Humans and Ghosts
This is a mind map of cultural thinking about the marriage and love story between humans and ghosts. The marriage and love story between humans and ghosts is a legendary cultural phenomenon that usually involves the love or marriage relationship between humans and ghosts.
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Cultural Thoughts on the Marriage and Love Stories between Humans and Ghosts
1. Cultural reflections on the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts during the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties
Several existing Chinese literary histories in our country have the following descriptions of the strange novels (including human-ghost marriage and love stories) in the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties: "Tortuously reflect the pressure of the feudal marriage system on the free union of young men and women"; "Praise It objectively exposes the evils of feudal ethics and has anti-feudal significance for young men and women who demand freedom of marriage." There is a comment in the "Chinese Literature and History" newly edited by Zhang Peiheng and Luo Yuming that it "focuses on the tendency of human life." For a long time, a fixed mindset has been formed in the field of literary research, which believes that fantasy novels are a reflection of real life in human society, and marriage and love between humans and ghosts are a reflection of men and women's pursuit of freedom in marriage in real life.
The Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties were an era of open-mindedness, and it was fashionable to celebrate birthdays and celebrate birthdays. For example: Shan Tao's wife went through the courtyard to spy on the activities of the opposite sex at night. Liu Yiqing included this story in "Shishuo Xinyu Xianyuan". It can be seen that resisting feudal ethics is by no means the main theme of the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts in this period. Marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts not only focus on the relationship between people in real life, but also have their own unique cultural orientation.
In the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts during the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties, there are a large number of "birth" and "resurrection" motifs, which reflect the theme of fertility worship.
give birth to a child
"Tan Sheng" in "Lieyizhuan" is the origin of the story of human-ghost marriage and love in literature: Tan Sheng was forty years old and had no wife, and a beautiful woman took the initiative to marry her, but she was told not to hold a candle to each other for three years. After the woman gave birth to a child, she couldn't bear to talk about life and curiosity, so she illuminated it with a candle. The woman's waist was covered with dry bones, and her upper body was as fleshy as a human being.
There are also "Cui Shaofu Tomb" in Qian Bao's "Sou Shen Ji", "Xu Xuan Fang Nu" in Tao Qian's "Sou Shen Ji", "Hu Fuzhi" and "The Woman Selling Hu Fen" in Liu Yiqing's "You Ming Lu". ", "Zhang Xun" in Liu Jingshu's "Yiyuan", etc.
resurrection
"Xu Xuan Fang Nu" in "Sou Shen Postscript": Ma Zi dreamed at night that a female ghost told her that she had been killed in vain. Ma Zi dug up the coffin, resurrected her, and married her.
The "resurrection" motif also exists in "Hejian County Men and Women" and "Wang Daoping" in Qian Bao's "Sou Shen Ji", "Li Zhongwen Girl" in "Sou Shen Ji", and "The Girl Selling Hu Fen" in Liu Yiqing's "You Ming Lu" , "Zhang Xun" in Liu Jingshu's "Yiyuan", etc.
In the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts during this period, the relationship between the sexes basically had no aesthetic or love orientation.
For example: In "Sou Shen Ji·Cui Shaofu Tomb", Lu Chong and the female ghost completely followed the instructions of their father in the underworld and spent three days as husband and wife. In "Xu Xuan Fang Nu", "Cui Shaofu's Tomb", and "Liu Changshi Nu", there is no mention of the female ghost's appearance. If the "crude summary" novel in its early stages of development cannot devote much attention to the romance between a man and a woman, why does it explain the story of having a child in such detail in such a short space? The opening chapter of "Tan Sheng" points out that Tan Sheng is "40 years old and has no wife", and the female ghost and Tan Sheng "are married and have a son". In "Hu Fuzhi", Hu Fuzhi's wife Li died, and Hu mourned that she had no children. The female ghost and Hu became husband and wife, and gave birth to a son in ten months. In "Cui Shaofu's Tomb", the female ghost gave Lu Chong a son. The female ghost in "Xu Xuan Fang Nu" also gave birth to two sons and one daughter for Ma Zi.
The stories of "marriage and love between humans and ghosts" in the Wei and Jin Dynasties embody the conscious spirit of fantasy about life and death. Social unrest, frequent wars, raging infectious diseases, disasters and death threaten individual lives at all times. In this era when human life is insignificant, the issue of life and death has been raised to an unprecedentedly important position, and a social trend of thought that values individual value has emerged. From thought to practice shows that this is an era of self-awareness that explores transcending death.
The story of marriage and love between humans and ghosts unfolds the fantasy of life and death: it is imagined that a female ghost is the wife of a man in the human world, and turns into a human after drying up bones and flesh ("Talking about Life"); in the process of being resurrected from the ghost, she can become the wife of a human man, but she cannot be buried in a coffin, otherwise all the efforts will be wasted ("Talking about Life") "Li Zhongwen Nv"); if the female ghost is "killed in vain", there is a basis for "rebirth", and she can be resurrected one year after becoming the wife of a man in the human world and completing some sacrificial rituals ("Xu Xuan Fang Nv"). We cannot ignore the fact that the female ghost in "Wang Daoping" "lived to be 130 years old" after being resurrected, and "Xu Xuan Fang Nu" lived to be over 80 years old after being resurrected. The lines are full of longing for immortality and various fantasies about resurrection.
In the Wei and Jin Dynasties, the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts were based on the themes of "birth" and "resurrection" and pointed to the same deep-seated issue - transcending death.
2. The evolution of human-ghost marriage and love stories and cultural changes
Aesthetics and sex stand out in the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts in the Tang and Song Dynasties, showing a strong secular color.
First of all, the image of female ghosts has gradually become secularized and given a female aesthetic color. The "ghost nature" factor has become less and less, and the appearance of female ghosts is more attractive, and their beauty is exaggerated. The noble concubine of the Chen Dynasty ("Legend·Yan Jun") who is clear-spoken and eloquent, a singer who is knowledgeable in arts and sciences and good at music ("History of Tang Dynasty·Wei Shizi"), and a beautiful woman who recites poems and plays the flute ("Strange Stories") ·Police Shen"), represents the sexual fantasy of male literati in the civilized era.
Secondly, the relationship between the sexes goes straight to sex, and the idea of having children is forgotten and never mentioned again. The prosperity of feudal society and the development of material production have reduced the burden of reproduction and increased the entertainment function of sex. Scenes of two lovers who are in love and vow to each other appear from time to time ("Strange Stories: Shen Jing", "Strange Stories: Du Mu Gu"); descriptions of men being frivolous and women falling in love with each other are common, and the three characters in "Zhang Yunrong" The beauties voluntarily roll the dice to decide who will be recommended for the pillow, and they have sex between men and women "for several nights, without knowing it", which is like a brothel.
The marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts in the Tang and Song Dynasties reflect the relationship between the sexes under the power of male discourse: a polygamous, ruthless man, and an infatuated woman who offers herself a pillow.
In "Huazhou Joins the Army", Yagyu pursues Cui's daughter, and at the same time he pleases Cui's daughter's maid. Cui's daughter takes the initiative to convey her love to Yagyu, and elopes three times, remaining infatuated with the ghost queen. In Fan Xun's "Yunxi Youyi·Wei Gao", Wei Gao was separated for about seven years, and there was no news. Yu Xiao "died on a hunger strike" because of love, and she remained infatuated because of the ghost, and promised to be Wei Gao's wife again in the next life. Concubine. There is not a single word of blame for Wei Gao's ruthlessness in the whole article. There is also a story in Hong Mai's "Yi Jian Zhi·Ezhou Nanshi Girl" about a rich girl who fell in love with a male servant. She became ill because of her thoughts. She took the initiative to pursue but was severely rejected. After her death, the infatuated female ghost looked for the man again and asked for marriage. She was " "Criticize his cheek" angrily, and finally committed suicide by jumping off the building. Such descriptions include "Yan Zhi", "Wang Calyx" and so on.
The infatuated and lustful female ghost takes the initiative to woo the man, which reflects the male-centrism based on male sexual psychology. Under the constraints of feudal ethics, men are full of passion for lust and cannot relieve the depression of sex. They can only hope that the beautiful woman will take the initiative and then disappear. Men do not have to bear any moral responsibility, and the consequences of indulgence are also pushed to the "indulgence" "Ye Dang" ghost woman. The oppression of the Cheng-Zhu Neo-Confucian etiquette in the Song Dynasty to a considerable extent also led women to the pathological tendency of "chastity" and "fierceness". Men longed for women to embody their natural nature that had not been destroyed and distorted by etiquette, especially in sexual and emotional initiative and unrestrained.
The descriptions of marriage and love between humans and ghosts in the Ming and Qing Dynasties are full of personality liberation. Although there are love stories between humans and ghosts in the Wei and Jin Dynasties as a guide, Tang Xianzu’s wonderful writing makes the love stories between humans and ghosts shine with the splendor of the times with different connotations of personality liberation.
In "The Peony Pavilion", he created for us Du Liniang, a female ghost who is full of infatuated love and pursues love and happiness through life and death. Du Liniang boldly told Judge Hu how she died due to a dream. Her pursuit of love and happiness was intense and persistent, and she even refused to give up until her goal was achieved. It has the nature of modern sexual love. Such works include "Teng Mu's Drunken Tour in the Garden" in Qu You's legendary novel "Jian Deng Xin Hua" in the early Ming Dynasty, and "Plum Nature" in Tu Shen's "Liuhe Internal and External Miscellaneous Words", etc.
In addition, sexual descriptions have been further exaggerated, and the indulgent and slutty female ghosts in the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts have become the carrier of male sexual fantasies. In Pu Songling's "Plum Girl", the plum girl recruits a prostitute for a man, and in "Lotus Fragrance", a man and a woman are described as walking in the clouds and spreading rain. Such descriptions also include "Lin Siniang" and so on.
The development of material production has enabled sexual life to replace reproductive activities for purely utilitarian purposes. The prosperity of commerce promotes population mobility, and the instability of gender relations gradually becomes a norm. Social changes have diluted group consciousness and strengthened individual consciousness, leading to the pursuit of individual liberation and the promotion of sexual love. Lu Xun said in "A Brief History of Chinese Novels": "At the time of Chenghua, the alchemist Li Zi and Seng Jixiao had suddenly become rich by offering books in their houses. During the Jiajing period, Tao Zhongwen was lucky enough to be the emperor of Shizong by selling red lead... and the decline gradually spread to the scholars. The trend of "Liu..." has changed and spread to the literary world. Therefore, since the alchemists began to use it, prescriptions and medicines have become more and more popular, and witchcraft has flourished. There are also many stories about gods and demons in novels, and they also talk about bed affairs.
3. Examine the views of life and death in Chinese and Western cultures through the story of marriage and love between humans and ghosts
Turning from China to the West, we are surprised to find that there is no mention of supernatural novels in Western literary history, and stories about human-ghost marriage and love are almost absent.
There are many descriptions of the love between humans and gods and the contact between humans and the dead in Western literary works, such as Dante's "Divine Comedy", Boccaccio's "Decameron", Shakespeare's "Hamlet" and so on. However, there are almost no marriages between humans and ghosts. At most, they are only fleeting, and they are not strictly a marriage between humans and ghosts. For example, Catherine's ghost in Emily Bronte's "Wuthering Heights" only appears in the form of a dream and does not directly appear. Participate in real life. What needs to be explained here is that the devil in Western beliefs is different from the ghost in China. "Bible Book of Job" writes: The devil (Satan) tests the world with the consent of God. Moreover, the devils in Western literary works mostly have symbolic meanings and are not specific images, such as the devil Marlowe in "The Tragedy of Dr. Faustus".
The lack of Western ghost marriage and love stories is indeed a thought-provoking issue. Below, the author attempts to analyze.
Western Christianity is certainly a factor that must be considered.
First of all, in the Christian concept, there is a supreme God who completely transcends the secular world. After death, the soul either goes to hell or heaven, unlike Chinese ghosts who intervene in human life.
Secondly, Christian asceticism makes it impossible for love ghosts to gain a foothold in the Western world. "The Gospel of Matthew in the New Testament" says: "You shall not commit adultery." "Whoever looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." In Dante's "Divine Comedy" the lovers Franziska and Paul Those who commit adultery will suffer in hell. Love between men and women in the human world is like this. The dead souls in the West can only settle in their own places, and cannot be like the ghosts and ghosts in China who are connected and do whatever they want.
China's traditional folk beliefs are a combination of sacred and secular.
First of all, there is no distinction between sacred and secular roles, and Chinese folk belief is ancestor worship;
Secondly, there is no distinction between sacred and secular space, dead ancestors - ghosts also have their own space in the human world. "Among the Chinese, there is a belief, doctrine, and axiom firmly established that the ghosts of the dead seem to be in the closest contact with the living, almost as closely as the living people are in contact with each other." According to Archaeologists' investigation of the tombs of the Zhoukoudian cave people found that at least since then, the Chinese have had obvious concepts of the soul and signs that the soul continues to live after death. The direct source of the story of "human-ghost marriage" is related to the custom of ghost marriage. The custom of ghost marriage is rooted in ancestor worship. According to Chinese folk beliefs, death in infancy and death without children are abnormal deaths. The essence is that the deceased did not have children. "A life that has not fulfilled its reproductive obligations is an imperfect and abnormal life. After death, one cannot be a 'normal' ghost." A ghost marriage ceremony must be held for the deceased. "From the Zhou Dynasty to the prohibition of 'relocation' and 'marriage' to the Republic of China for more than 2,000 years, the practice of underworld marriage has continued to flourish, and it has been practiced by both common people and emperors and officials." On such fertile soil, the literary wonder of "marriage between humans and ghosts" grows freely.
Let us look at the different ways in which Chinese and Western cultures pursue the eternity of life—internal transcendence and external transcendence—through the marriage and love stories between humans and ghosts.
inner transcendence
The fertility worship in the marriage and love story between humans and ghosts embodies the Confucian philosophy of life characterized by inner transcendence. Since physical immortality is impossible to achieve, the rationalistic Confucianism, with its anti-mythical rational attitude, inherited the idea of primitive reproductive worship, which manifested itself in advocating multiple Son, the famous creed of worshiping ancestors and "there are three types of unfilial piety, and having no offspring is the greatest", and further ethicalized the worship of reproduction into the doctrine of "filial piety", emphasizing the eternal continuation of the race.
The sexual relationship between man and female ghost in human-ghost marriage embodies the Chinese Taoist philosophy of life characterized by inner transcendence and based on the concept of yin and yang. "The ideal state of the human body is a balance of yin and yang, which is the symbol of the 'Tai' hexagram. But the actual situation is that there is no absolute balance, either yin or yang is strong, and the degree is different, which is the symbol of the other four hexagrams. By adjusting it, it will be as close to the central balance state of 'Tai' as possible. "The characters in the human-ghost marriage story are single masculine men and underworld female ghosts. Yin and Yang complement each other. When "Taiping Guangji·Zhang Yunke" wrote about the resurrecting technique, there are words like "potting out the yin and yang" and "if you encounter the spirit of intercourse with a stranger, you may be reborn as an earth fairy ear". The article specially arranged the female ghost and the young man. The story of a man named Xue Zhao who meets and has sex and then regenerates. In "The Postscript of the Search for the Gods·Xu Xuan Fang Nu", the female ghost confesses frankly that she must be the wife of a man in the mortal world in order to be resurrected. Such descriptions also include "The Postscript of Sou Shen·Li Zhongwen's Girl", "Guang Yi Zhi·Liu Changshi's Girl", Feng Menglong's "Legends of Love History·Zheng Wanye", etc.
The Taoist yin-yang fish symbol indicates that the two forces of yin and yang have begun to transform into their opposites when they reach their respective climaxes. Yin and Yang both generate and inhibit each other. Ji Yun's "Notes from Yuewei Thatched Cottage: Farewell to the Ghost Woman" contains the words "using yin to peel off yang". Such descriptions also include "Lang Yang's life has not ended, and my concubine's yin quality has not been transformed. If you indulge in worldly fate, you will be unlucky" ("Zheng Wanye"). "I have a shady nature, and it is not suitable for me to live in the world of Yangming for a long time." "If I stay too late, I will be punished. It will not only harm me, but also benefit you." ("Wei") "Youth"), as well as a large number of people who died violently due to vaginal stripping in "Customs of Customs·Zheng Qi", "Jiwen·Daodeli Scholars", "Yi Jianzhi·Women of the West Lake", and "Strange Stories·Dugu Mu" description.
Both Chinese Confucianism and Taoism's approach to pursuing eternal life has the characteristics of "internal transcendence" and advocates relying entirely on one's own efforts to achieve a state of transcending death and pursuing eternal life.
external transcendence
Western Christianity takes an approach characterized by "external transcendence." Since ancient Greece, Plato and Aristotle have generally divided the world into transcendent ontology and the real world.
Christianity also believes that there is an ideal kingdom of heaven, a supreme God that completely transcends the world. Only by strictly following God's will can the soul live forever. In Tolstoy's "Resurrection", the protagonist's spirit is converted to God, his faith in goodness and love is restored, and his soul is resurrected.
In Dostoevsky's "Crime and Punishment", both Dmitry and Ivan consider world issues from the perspective of human suffering. The former has a God in his heart and obtains the "resurrection" of his soul, while the latter is an atheist. leading to moral degradation. This pursuit of eternal life can only be achieved by relying on God and cannot be achieved by individual efforts.
Disconceptions and doubts: Since the 20th century, the study of ghosts in the West has been in the ascendant, forming the discipline of psychics (i.e. ghostology). In 1918, Dutch scholar Dr. Scheers measured the weight of the ghost. In 1920, Dr. Kilner from England invented a powder that could be applied to glass to see ghosts. In Oxford and Cambridge, two world-famous universities, there are "Ghost Research Lectures". Following the comedy film "Devil's Nemesis" in the early 1980s, Hollywood in the United States released films such as "Ghostbusters II" and "Ghostbusters" in the 1990s. In China, a country rich in ghost stories, ghosts have almost disappeared. This is indeed an intriguing question.